Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Hello Ladies: These 2 Common Mistakes Will Keep You Single And Keep Good Guys Away

 Hi,
If you are single working class lady of 27- 40 years who is still single…but desperately wants to get married and start a family…then you need to read this carefully.
First I want you to think about something.

Have you ever wondered why some so called bad girls with bad morals get married before the so called good girls?

What do you think these so called bad girls …know and do that you don’t know?
And the funny thing is …some of the things these bad girls do …are actually good?
Here is one.

They socialize.

Look.

Guys don’t fall down from heaven.

They are born on the earth, roaming free…just like you.

If you don’t put yourself where they can see you, then no magic will bring them to you.
Gone are the days …a man will just ask for your hand in marriage because they see you from afar.

In fact, I laugh when I see parents hide their daughters thinking they are protecting them from harm.

Guys are sharper now.

Times have change.

You to have to change too.

My advice is...
Go out and meet people.

Alright…
Sorry I had to rant a little.

So you know…you might be angry and very desperate about this whole marriage thing…because your friends are all getting married.

Perhaps you wake up some nights and cry …asking God “why am i not yet married”?
You may even start thinking something is wrong with you.
Or perhaps you have dated many guys …who just want to have sex with you and dump you.
Listen dear.

Most guys are dogs.

I don’t dispute that.

They just want to have sex…but trust me …most guys want to get married and settle down too.

And when they time comes for that…they look for girls they can get married too.
And most times…it is not girls they have sex with.
Sad but true.
So here’s the secret.

 To attract a guy who really deserves you and wants you…you need to really understand men…and what they look out for.
Most times it is not what you think.

You see times are changing…so does the way naija men now think.
If you only knew some of the things men talk about…and want…you would be shocked.

Here is an example.

Do you know men look for different things when they want a woman for marriage ...and a woman for dating /sex?
In fact, I have seen men who have good sex partners ... go out and marry other women.
This is because they want something else when it comes to marriage.
So in as much as men love to have sex all day…when it comes to marriage and settling down…they open their eyes.

Ladies this is no joke.
Take it from me as a guy.

You need to avoid these mistakes

1.     Don’t Talk About Marriage Always

I know this sounds kinda stupid because…of course marriage is the biggest thing on your mind right now.
But you know what.
Guys don’t want to hear it.
Seriously.
It’s like you trying to force something down their throat.
Men don’t want to be pressured into marriage.
I know you fantasize about your D-day, the lovely family you will have, your lovely kids and everything.
But please don’t go telling your guy about it every day.
You will just scare him off.

2.     Don’t Be Too Demanding
An average Nigerian guy knows he will have to spend some money to get a girl.
It’s the culture here.
But trust me no man wants a woman who only asks and demand for stuff.
So take my advice…
Stop over demand for money….hey, you are working right?
Stop over demanding for time.
Don’t get him thinking…this girl the disturb o (if I marry this one, I don die o)
    

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